Who is the mother?

I have a son. At least in my opinion and luckily also in my sons opinion. But... I have not given birth to him. So what makes me think I have the right to call myself his mother? Well, for the following reasons: I am married to his father and I live with them. I love my boy, I hug him and kiss him and sometimes I discipline him. I help him with his homework, I teach him how to ride a bike, I teach him his second language, I feed him, wash his clothes, take him to the school bus, spend some of my money on things that he needs. I bring him safety and stability.
Some people prefer to call another woman his real mother. This woman has: twice abducted him, tried to kill his father, used her daughter to bring forth false accusations.
She has not: payed child support, in any way supported "her" son, connected in any way with him.

Motherhood is not something biological. It is a relationship between a woman and a child (and later on an adult).

The laws in this country prevents my husband from suing her for the abduction. If you abduct a child that is biologically yours, it is not a crime against the child! It is a crime against the other parent, because you rob them of the opportunity to spend time with the child. It is madness! My son still suffers from the consequences of the abductions, but no crime has been committed against him. What about his right to be with his father? What about his right to be and to feel safe?

Now this crazy woman has sued for custody... again. Luckily the judge already knows she is insane. It is a true joy to hear this evil woman's lawyer grinding his teeth in court...

Mother - is the one who keeps you safe.